5 Best Birthday Gift Ideas For Him

So now back to what men like and want, here are five key birthday gift ideas that I suggest for him:

1. A surprise gift ambush in the bedroom wearing that short nightie he loves.  Nothing drives up high levels of juicy dopamine, the brain chemical of loving affection, better than a surprise gift or novelty gift.  A small glass of wine can help too.
2. A gift coupon good for complete silence during his favorite sport on TV.  Better yet, leave or send him to a sports bar to scream himself silly over a basket.
3. Performing a sexual act of loving affection that he longs for (the one you almost never do).  For extra gift points, this can be done at half-time .
4. Gift tickets to a game he would absolutely freak out over.  Or the latest and greatest role-playing video game for his gaming console.   If you want to go for an over the top gift, become a fan of any game he is into so you grunt, scream, hoot and howl together.  Or get into a rock video game and form your own band.  Remember, the couple that plays together stays together.
5. Performing a sexual act of loving affection that he longs for (the one you almost never do) a second time.  Definitely not when there are three minutes or less left in his game.

Seriously, I am not saying that men do not value deep intimacy, connection and verbal sharing.   They do.  But for men in committed relationships, a birthday gift that shows your caring through sexuality, passion and understanding will go a long way to deepening your relationship.   A man needs his own separate space and time even more than you do.  Paradoxically, giving it to him on his birthday will help him to feel closer to you.  And a whole lot happier.  So the bottom line is: try to give him what he wants and needs on his birthday.  Chances are he will do the same for you.